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  • 23 Weeks

    May 9, 2013

    week 23 edit

    Our bambino is the size of a grapefruit.  The blogs I follow tell me that she’s starting to listen to whats going on outside of her home in my belly and she can even feel movement.  I’ve been turning up the radio on in the car and at the house, and even dancing on occasion, hoping she’ll have a better sense of rhythm than I do.

    This week I gave final exams and entered final grades while Dusty was in NYC for the first part of the week and spent the rest of the week preparing for Big Omaha.

    Gender & Name:  You all know it’s a girl but no one knows the name yet! We’re still not quite sure what she’s going to be called either.  It’s a big commitment to choose a name.  We’re still calling her “bambino” and Dusty’s even shortened it to “bino” (beano).  On occasion we make up great names like Henrietta, Rodette, Harley, and Jezebel just to throw people off.

    Weight Gain: Some of you might have noticed that I stopped posting about my weight.  It’s not because I don’t want to share, it’s just because I actually forgot what my weight was and how it’s changed.  I decided I’d just wait until I go to my next doctor’s appointment and get an accurate count and then start up again.  If I were to speculate, I’ve gained approximately 2 pounds each week for the past few weeks.  I’m most definitely putting on the pounds and you can see it in my growing belly!

    Maternity Clothes: Have I told you how much I love maternity pants?  I think I have but I’m telling you again, they’re the best things ever!  Since school has ended for the semester and I don’t have to be on campus very much, I’ve been wearing my awesome maternity capris and lots of cotton dresses and maxi skirts.

    Sleep: I’m sleeping great but most definitely no longer sleeping on my stomach.  I’ve been sleeping on my sides for almost a month now but I don’t think I’ve mentioned how weird it is to not be able to sleep the same way you’ve slept for the last 30 years of my life.  I wonder if I’ll go back to sleeping on my stomach once I have the baby or if I’ll have trained myself to sleep in a new position.

    Food: I’ve been eating a lot of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches with chips for lunch.  I’m still loving ALL food and really enjoying those desserts!  If I can’t drink wine then I think I deserve some kind of delicious treat!

    Missing Anything: Not missing anything this week!  I’m just feeling really good about everything!

    Movement:  She’s a mover and a shaker! I love feeling her move and wish she’d stay up all day and dance around for me.  I constantly tell Dusty she’s moving and I think he’s a little sad that he can’t quite feel her yet.  There was one time this past week that he was able to feel her but it was just the slightest of movements.

    Belly Button: It’s getting darn close to no longer being an outie.  I find myself sticking my finger in my belly button because it’s so odd to me that my little innie is disappearing.

    Mood: I’ve been in a great mood!  The doctor’s don’t lie when they say that you really do feel great during your second trimester.  I was one of those lucky ones that have felt really good throughout my entire pregnancy but now that I’m showing and we’re sharing our exciting news with everyone, it makes things even better!!!  This week we have final exams so I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and have been able to do most of my work from home, and that makes for a great mood as well.

    Best Moment(s) This Week: My best moment this week is entering final grades and having that feeling of finalization and accomplishment for the semester.  My second favorite moment this week was picking up Dusty at the airport and just being happy to have him back at home!

    Looking Forward To: I’m looking forward to celebrating Big Omaha’s five year anniversary!  I’m also looking forward to my 24 week doctor’s appointment and hearing our bambino’s heartbeat.

    ***My weekly posts are written during the week and then posted the following week, after I’ve taken my weekly picture and I’ve had time to edit them.***

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  • 22 Weeks

    April 30, 2013

    week 22

    This week our bambino is the size of a papaya and almost a pound!  This is my last week of classes and all I’ve been doing in my spare time is grading final papers and presentations.  Next week things start to slow down at work and I’m really excited to finalize everything at school and start the summer off smoothly.  The baby is due right as the academic year is starting in the fall so I feel a little extra pressure to get my ducks in a row so I won’t be rushing (waddling) around school in the fall.

    I think my nesting phase has kicked in and all I can think about is getting the apartment ready for our bambino.  Actually, the whole nesting thing started a while ago but I’ve been telling myself there will be plenty of time once the spring semester is over and I can change focus from work to home.

    Gender: It’s a girl! We’re starting to think of names but nothing too serious yet.  I think we’ll probably wait until we’re in Paris and have a little more time to contemplate options.

    Maternity Clothes: I’m still wearing a lot of dresses and maxi skirts.  The weather is a little wonky right now so half of the week I wore dresses or long skirts and the rest of the week I was in leggings and maternity jeans with sweaters.

    I bought a pair of maternity pants and it was the best decision ever! I don’t know why I waited so long to start wearing them (they’ve been sitting in my closet for a couple of weeks)! I’m now trying to convince Dusty that he should purchase some too!!! They’re so comfy!

    Sleep: I’m sleeping relatively well.  I didn’t have nearly as many crazy dreams as last week.

    Food: I’m still craving everything!

    Missing Anything: I was really missing my pants this week and being able to fit into some of my regular sized jeans!  I remember the days when I couldn’t wait until I started showing and now that they’re here I just want to fit into some of those cute summer capris I have from last summer.

    Movement:  One of my favorite things is to feel our little bambino move.  The baby books and emails I get tell me that the baby’s settling into a sleep cycle, snoozing about 12 to 14 hours a day. It been a lot of fun tracking her movements and seeing what kind of routine she’s created for herself.  I know the kicking and punching will get more aggressive and become uncomfortable at times as she grows but I love feeling her move about.  I can’t wait until Dusty can really start to feel her movements too!

    Belly Button: It’s most definitely getting bigger and flatter.

    Mood: Overall, I was in a great mood this week and am feeling really good.  It’s crazy how my emotions can take over though.  On Monday we were supposed to take the gender reveal pictures but it rained and the lighting was really bad in the house so we couldn’t do it and I had an emotional breakdown.  I was so upset that I had bought balloons (for the second time, because the first planned attempt didn’t pan out either), put make-up on, did my hair and changed my clothes.

    We went to visit a couple of daycares on Friday and saw a friend of ours dropping off her daughter right at the same time.  She was making a comment about how she cried when they went to check out of daycares.  I thought to myself, “no way that’s going to be me.  What’s the big deal?”  Well, we got inside, talked to someone for a bit and then started the tour.  What would you know, the moment I walked into the infant room, where several of the little ones were sleeping, I started getting tears in my eyes.  Just the thought of my little girl sleeping peacefully in one of those cribs brought tears to my eyes.

    Best Moment(s) This Week: One of my favorite moments this week was throwing a baby shower for a friend of mine, Megan, who’s having a boy in June.  We had a lot of fun eating, drinking (non-alcoholic beverages for me) and sharing pregnancy and baby stories.  I love hosting parties so it was so much fun to have everyone over on such a nice Saturday afternoon.

    Another great moment this week was starting the baby registry process!  I didn’t realize how difficult it would be trying to figure out what our little bambino is going to need and want when she’s born.  It does feel good to start crossing that item off my to-do list though.

    Looking Forward To: Finishing my last week of school for the semester!

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  • 21 Weeks

    April 28, 2013

    week 21

    This week our bambino is the size of a pomegranate and the length of a carrot.  I had a busy week at work and Dusty had an equally busy week.  I’m really excited for classes to end so I can focus on my baby to do list.  I’m starting to realize that we’ll be in Paris for a month and this means we need to get a lot of things done in the next month before we leave.

    I’m currently researching child care options and have made appointments for Dusty and I to visit a few places.  We also have a few names of pediatricians and will be talking to doctor’s once summer starts and my schedule slows down a little.

    Gender: It’s a girl! I still can’t believe the little bambino in my belly isn’t just an “it” but is a really person!

    Maternity Clothes: I’m wearing a lot of dresses, maxi skirts, and leggings with long shirts.

    Sleep: I’m still sleeping really well and getting a good 7-8 hours of sleep each night.  I wake up once to use the bathroom but usually go back to sleep easily.  There were a couple of nights that I had unusual dreams/nightmares and couldn’t go back to sleep for a while but overall, I’m waking up in the morning feeling refreshed.

    Food: I’m still really hungry all the time! I have no food aversions which is a nice relief.

    Missing Anything: I really didn’t miss anything in particular this week.  I’m getting use to not being able to eat and drink certain things like lunch meat, wine, diet coke, raw sushi, and cheese.

    I am missing the ease of getting out of bed in the morning, bending over, and flexibility I once had when doing yoga.  What’s crazy is that these things are only going to get more difficult.  I’ve started to see how easy it once was to move around and how my body is changing.

    Movement:  I’m feeling a lot of movement from our bambino.  I’m starting to notice that she moves around in the morning around 9 or 10am and then again in the evening around 8 or 9pm.  I love feeling her move around and I can’t tell you how comforting it is.  I no longer worry nearly as much as I did earlier in the pregnancy.  Feeling her move around has been such a huge reassurance.  She’s a little stubborn though.  When Dusty puts his hand on my belly she just doesn’t want to move around anymore.

    Belly Button: I still have an innie but it’s most definitely getting bigger and flatter.  It’ll be a while before it’s an outie but it’s getting closer!

    Mood: This week was a hard week.  My 21 year old cousin passed away unexpectedly and it was a very emotional.  My emotions are most definitely a little more up and down this week.

    Best Moment(s) This Week: Choosing the nursery colors!

    Looking Forward To: Accomplishing some things on our baby to do list!

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  • Half Way There

    April 28, 2013

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    I can’t believe that I’ve entered the second half of my pregnancy and that in four months (or less) this little bambino will be coming out of my belly.  Up to this point I’ve hardly felt pregnant until these past few weeks.  All of a sudden my belly is bigger and it’s getting a little more difficult to move around.

    Since finding out we’re having a baby girl, everything has started to become a lot more real.  Another factor adding to the reality of this whole ‘it’s not just an alien in my belly’ thing is that I’m feeling our little girl move around more and more.

    Early on we started thinking of baby names but now that we’ve found out that we’re 100% sure of the sex, the discussion has begun again.  We’ve come up with a few names but nothing we’re monograming on anything.

    With 19 weeks left until our little bambino arrives I’m feeling really unprepared.  I’ve started a list of major things we need to do by August but I know there are so many other things that need to be on the list as well.

    To Do List Before Our Bambino Arrives
    Choose nursery colors and decor
    Decorate the nursery
    Purchase & set up crib and mattress
    Create a baby registry
    Choose a name
    Clean out closet in nursery
    Research and book hospital classes
    Tour hospital
    Purchase some necessities (diapers, blankets, onsies)
    Bring home bambino’s dresser (this was and is our first and only major purchase)
    Choose a pediatrician
    Pack hospital bag
    Schedule doctor’s appointment in Paris
    Get all of the big stuff like car seat and stroller
    Choose child care
    Think about labor and decide on a birthing plan
    Stock up on household supplies

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  • We’re Having A…

    April 28, 2013

    3043256We’re delighted to announce our little bambino is a girl!!!

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  • 20 Weeks

    April 16, 2013

    week 20

    This week our bambino is the size of a banana and weighs about 13 ounces (according to the ultra-sound)! According to one of the weekly emails I get, the baby’s taste buds actually work and is sipping several ounces of amniotic fluid every day! Studies show that after birth, babies respond best to tastes they’ve already had via amniotic fluid.  So, what is our little bambino tasting?  The baby is getting to taste lots of chocolate, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and pasta.

    Total Weight Gain: We went to the doctor’s this week and I’ve gained 4 pounds.  I’m quite positive that those pounds will be coming on much faster because my belly is growing fast!

    Gender: We know the gender and we will be sharing with everyone very soon!

    Maternity Clothes: Officially, I have no pants that fit.  I’m wearing a lot of dresses.  I only have three more weeks of class/work before summer break starts.  I hate the idea of purchasing maternity work clothes that I will only wear for a couple more weeks and never wearing again.  The weather is also on the verge of getting warmer and I spend most of my summer in dresses and skirts so I’m holding on as long as possible with the things I have at home.

    This weekend I made a stretchy knit skirt and converted an old pair of jeans into maternity jeans so I think I’m set for a while.  I also went shopping and bought an actual maternity dress that I can wear all through the summer.

    Food: So interesting to me how hungry I am (constantly).  It’s so odd to me that just a week ago a switch turned on inside my stomach, activating my desire for food.  I’m really trying to eat healthy and be smart about my food consumption but it’s really hard!!! I am really liking food!!!!

    Sleep: I didn’t sleep as well this week.  The first part of the week I had a hard time sleeping because I was so excited about our doctor’s appointment on Wednesday and then the the rest of the week I had nightmares/dreams about the baby. I believe the reason for all the vivid dreams/nightmares is that we saw our little bambino for the first time and then I realized how real it all is.  After this, I started really worrying that something might happen to the little precious thing inside of me.

    Missing Anything: The one thing I really missed this week was the thought that I just can’t control my bladder.  I have to go to the bathroom what seems like a million times a day.  I told Dusty this week that I just can’t wait until this pregnancy is over and I won’t have to use the restroom as much. So, what am I missing? I’m missing having to go pee only four times a day instead of 20 (bit of an exaggeration but I really go a lot)!

    Movement:  Crazy how one week can make a huge difference.  Last week I thought I might be feeling a little fluttering and this week I most definitely felt movement.  Over the weekend our bambino was really moving around and Dusty was able to feel a little nudge.  I would most definitely say there is currently a transition from those initial fluttering movement into full-fledge kicks and nudges.  I’m trying to pay attention to when the movement happens to see what kind of pattern the bambino has.

    Mood: I was in a great mood this week.  I was excited yet anxious at the same time to have our ultra-sound.  And now that we’ve seen our bambino we’re over the moon in love with this little thing that’s no longer just an “it”.

    Best Moment(s) This Week: Having the ultra-sound and seeing our bambino!  We were with the ultra-sound tech for about an hour so we got lots of quality time with the bambino.  The tech said the baby was hiding it’s head and it took quit  long time to get a clear view so they could measure the growth of the head and make sure everything was alright.  It’s amazing the kinds of things that the doctor look for in the ultra-sound and how much they can tell you and show you.  I was so surprised that they could tell us how much the baby weighed just by the measurements they took.  In the end, everything looked great and our little bambino is perfect!

    My second favorite moment was this weekend when we were laying in bed and I told Dusty that I swore I was really feeling the baby move and they were so strong that I wanted him to put his hand on my stomach to see if he could feel something.  It wasn’t much but he did feel definite nudge.

    Looking Forward To: Starting to get the nursery ready now that we know the gender of the baby.

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  • Boy Or Girl?

    April 7, 2013

    2974614Here’s a quick animation of my photo shoot from Week 19 (also called the bambino shake)!

    In three short days we’ll be finding out if we’re having a boy or girl.  This is also going to be our first ultrasound.  So many exciting things happening this week!

    The big question is, what do you think we’ll be having! Is it going to be a BOY or GIRL?

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  • 19 Weeks

    April 7, 2013

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    This week our little bambino is the size of a mango and weighs about 8.5 ounces! I went back to work this week and realized how much I need to do before the end of the semester.  Knowing that things will be changing drastically when the fall semester begins, I’m trying to get everything sorted before I leave for summer break.  I called a couple of day cares to schedule tours and start asking questions about who will be taking care of our bambino once I go back to work.

    Total Weight Gain: I’ll find out exactly how much weight I’ve gained next week but as of today I’d say I’ve gained about 5 pounds (3 pounds since last week). And if you count the couple of pounds I lost after I got pregnant I’ve really gained 7-8 pounds since my lowest weight which was around 12 weeks.

    Maternity Clothes: It’s time to purchase some new clothes.  I went shopping this weekend and bought a stretchy dress that can grow with me.  I haven’t bought any maternity clothes but the plan is to go shopping for maternity capris or pants of some sort this week.  It’s becoming more difficult to find things that fit.  I’m wearing a lot of dresses.  For this week’s photo session I wanted to find some cute pants to wear with the top you see in the photo and eventually settled on stretchy pants or yoga pants.  Really, they shouldn’t be pants but couldn’t find a single pair of pants that fit without me leaving the top button undone!

    Stretch Marks: No stretch marks (yet).  I’m putting plenty of lotion on my baby bump.

    Food: I’m still really enjoying food this week, which will only increase I’m sure! No specific cravings but I’m glad to be back at work and not on spring break or traveling because I’ve gotten back into a normal eating schedule and no longer just graze the entire day.

    Sleep: I slept great this week.  Probably because I was so tired from working so much.  I had a lot of grading, presentations, meetings and all of those things that come with the job this week. So, I was up late (for me) this week.

    Missing Anything: Wine as always but really not missing anything this week!

    Movement:  All of the baby books and blogs say that I should be able to feel the baby in some way.  This week I possibly am feeling movement but I’m not quite sure!  It’s a little fluttering in my lower abdomen.  The question is though, is it just me thinking that I might be feeling something because all of the books/blogs say I could be feeling things at this point or is it really happening?

    Belly Button: I wish I would have taken a picture of my belly button pre-baby bump because my belly button is becoming no existent.  It’s not an outie yet but I know at some point my belly button is going to make that “pop” sound.

    Mood: I haven’t really written about how I’ve been feeling throughout my pregnancy since for the most part, I’ve had such a positive experience physically.  Emotionally it hasn’t always been such a positive experience.  For the first 16 weeks + I was feeling worried and anxious about wether something bad was going to happen.  Was I going to stay pregnant? Was something going to go wrong?  Starting a couple of weeks ago my mood started to change and I was feeling much happier.  I’m pretty sure it has to do with the fact that my baby pump is starting to grow and it’s becoming more real.  Which leads me to this week, I’ve been in a really good mood.  We’re visiting the doctor next week and as in the past, as the days get closer to our doctor’s visit I start to get a little nervous and anxious to hear the heart beat but over all I’m feeling really great!

    Best Moment(s) This Week: Being at home with Dusty! We were both traveling last week and so busy with work that I barely got to see him.  Some other great  moments this week were having book club and catching up with friends this weekend.  I know our lives will change drastically when the baby is born so it’s so nice to do the small things that I know won’t be so small when we’re a family of three.

    Looking Forward To: Finding out the gender of our little bambino next week!

  • 18 Weeks

    April 2, 2013

    week 18

    This week our bambino is the size of a sweet potato.  It’s amazing to me that I’m four and a half months pregnant and our baby doesn’t even weigh one pound.  SPN welcomed it’s inaugural Big Kansas City Conference this week.  Dusty left for KC early Tuesday morning and I went to join in the fun and to see the second part of the conference Wednesday evening and all day Thursday.  This week was hard because Dusty was really busy with the Big KC event and I was busy with work myself.  I left KC on Friday to make the long trip to Oklahoma City to visit my dad and his family for the Easter weekend.

    Total Weight Gain: I need to wait until we visit the doctor in a couple of weeks before I can accurately determine the total weight gain amount but I’m estimating around 2 pounds.  I can tell a big different in my belly area though and am most definitely looking more pregnant! It’s been a big relief for me to look “pregnant” although at the moment I probably just look like I’ve gained a little extra holiday weight in the middle section.  This picture might not show it but I’m even bigger than last week!

    Clothing: No change in clothing yet.  I’m still wearing my maxi dresses and other dresses with room in the middle for me to grow as well as pants that use to be loose on me but a fitting snuggly now.  I’m also cheating and wearing khaki pants with the top button undone (I hope no one can tell). Oh yes, I need to find the time to purchase some maternity pants!

    Food: Speaking of weight gain, I’m really enjoying food this week.  No specific cravings, just wanting to eat everything in sight! Being out of town Wednesday through Sunday was no help and I really indulged in a lot of guilty pleasures including late night pizza and chocolate from the Easter Bunny.

    Sleep: I didn’t get very good sleep this week but I don’t blame that on the little bambino. I blame my lack of sleep on my busy work schedule and leaving for KC on Wednesday, knowing I wouldn’t be home until late Sunday evening.  I found myself waking up in the middle of the night thinking of another thing I needed to put on my to do list.  I do try to go to bed most nights before midnight and usually get up around 7 or 8am.

    Missing Anything: I’m completely missing knowing what this little bambino is, boy or girl! While in Oklahoma I went shopping and really wanted to buy something for our little guy or girl but it was so hard because I just didn’t think anything gender neutral enough.  Everything looked too boyish or too girly.  A little less than two weeks before we find out what’s growing inside of me.

    Best moment(s) this week: I had a couple of great moments this week. First was exercising and running, I’m starting to get back in the rhythm of things.  I ran twice outside while in Oklahoma and got to enjoy the beautiful weather down there.  It was so nice to get some fresh air. It’s made me want to run outside here in Omaha but still need to wait a little longer for the weather to warm up.

    The second best moment was visiting my family in Oklahoma and being able to share the baby news with them.  Although we told them via Skype a while ago that we were expecting, it was so nice to see them and to show off my baby bump.

  • 17 Weeks

    April 2, 2013

    week 17

    Week 17 was Spring Break and our baby is the size of an onion!  I really enjoyed myself this week, getting to go to lunch with a few of my friends and even with Dusty (which I never get to do) and getting caught up on a few things around the house.  I feel like this week should be titled “Oh Yes!!! I’m finally starting to look a little pregnant!!!”

    Total Weight Gain: I’m not quite sure how much weight I’ve gained but if I were to guess, I’m back to my original weight plus a pound or two (depending on the day or time of day I weighed myself).  I promise I’m not a fanatic about my weight.  In fact, I don’t weigh myself every day and most weeks just once so I can add something to the blog post.  The next time I visit the doctor I’m going to take note of my weight and then weigh myself at home so I can keep better track.  I am interested in tracking when all this weight gain will happen.

    Gender: Still very excited to find out what we’re having.  Just three more weeks! I told Dusty he better free up some time after our doctor’s appointment because I want to find just one cute outfit after we find out if we’re having a boy or girl.  I haven’t bought anything for this little bambino and I’m itching to find something super cute I can hang in the closet or put in a drawer.

    Sleep: I’m sleeping relatively well.  The only times I have a hard time sleeping are those days that I have a lot on my mind, almost always related to work and not getting everything done I needed.  I’m sure these sleepless nights will be filled with baby thoughts in the future but right now it’s all about work.  I’m getting use to waking up once during the night to go to the bathroom but otherwise, I’m getting a good 7 to 8 hours of sleep.

    Clothing: This week I’m really starting to notice that my clothes are no longer fitting and I’m going to be needing maternity clothes soon.  I’m lucky enough that I have some work pants that were a little on the large size so I’m able to wear those but they’re feeling really snug.  I’m also taking advantage of the many dresses I own.  I haven’t bought any maternity clothes but I did purchase three maxi dresses, like the one chosen in this week’s update that will stretch as my baby bump grows.

    Best moment this week: The best moment this week was having the week off.  I spent most of the week relaxing, catching up with friends and accomplishing a whole lot of nothing.

    Sorry this post is coming a little late, I’m trying to catch up but life has been busy.

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